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The Bridle Path — Specialist Domestic Abuse & Sexual Violence Initiative

Because nobody should
have to choose between
safety and their horse.

The Bridle Path is a specialist domestic abuse and sexual violence initiative for rural and equestrian communities, including farming families, where animals, land, isolation, and community pressures can create unique barriers to safety, support, and recovery.

🚨 In immediate danger? Call 999. National DA Helpline: 0808 2000 247 (free, 24hrs)
71%
of survivors delay leaving because of their animals
50%
as likely to report — rural victims stay hidden
97%
of DA professionals confirm animals used as coercive control
1M+
older people experience DA in the UK every year
25%
longer — rural abuse lasts longer than urban

Sources: ONS 2024 · National Rural Crime Network 2019 · Ruby's Law 2025 · Farm Safety Foundation 2026

Specialist support
for rural & equestrian survivors.

Lunara — portrait

"No one should face abuse alone — wherever they live."

The Bridle Path is a specialist domestic abuse and sexual violence initiative for rural and equestrian communities, including farming families, where animals, land, isolation, and community pressures can create unique barriers to safety, support, and recovery.

Most domestic abuse services are built for towns and cities. We are built for fields, stables, remote lanes and farming communities. We understand your world because we live in it too.

We provide specialist advocacy and independent support, and are developing equine-assisted recovery for survivors in rural and equestrian communities. Direct casework is currently available in Buckinghamshire and Devon, with information, signposting, training and research available UK-wide.

The Bridle Path is a UK-focused specialist initiative. Casework and equine-assisted support is currently available in Buckinghamshire and Devon. Training for professionals and research is available UK-wide.

Our Mission

The Bridle Path is a specialist domestic abuse and sexual violence initiative for rural and equestrian communities, including farming families, where animals, land, isolation, and community pressures can create unique barriers to safety, support, and recovery.

Our Vision

A future where survivors in rural, farming and equestrian communities are seen, believed and supported — where no one has to choose between their safety and the animals, land or life they love.

One stop shop.
Every step of the way.

Everything you need in one place — from your first contact to long-term recovery. You do not need to tell your story twice.

Please note: The Bridle Path is currently in its development and pilot phase, operating in Buckinghamshire and Devon. Direct casework and equine-assisted support are offered in Buckinghamshire and Devon in a controlled and staged way as our governance and policies are established. Training for professionals is available UK-wide. Please contact us to discuss your situation and what support may be available.
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Specialist Advocacy

Independent, confidential support from a qualified IDVA and ISVA. We help you understand your options, navigate the system and make decisions that are right for you — at your own pace, without pressure.

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Safe Enquiry Service

A confidential contact service for survivors in rural and equestrian communities. We understand the unique challenges you face. Reach out by email and we will respond safely and confidentially within 2 working days.

This is not an emergency service. If you are in immediate danger, call 999.

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Healing Hooves & Hearts

Our specialist survivor support and recovery programme — designed specifically for people in rural, farming and equestrian communities. Like the Freedom Programme but built for the realities of farm life, equestrian communities, rural isolation, land and animals. Helping survivors understand what happened to them in language that reflects their world.

Currently in development. Contact us to register your interest.

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Criminal Justice Support

Specialist support through the criminal justice process — from understanding reporting options to court preparation. We are there before, during and after, making sure you are never alone in the system.

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Safety Planning

Practical safety planning that understands rural realities — animals, livestock, land, isolated locations, tied accommodation, family business and farm income, access to transport and communication, and complex financial dependencies. We help you plan for safety in a way that works for your life.

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Older Adult Specialism

Specialist support for older adults experiencing abuse — a deeply underserved group. We understand the unique barriers older survivors face and provide sensitive, age-appropriate advocacy.

Healing Hooves
& Hearts.

A survivor support programme built for rural, farming and equestrian communities

Healing Hooves and Hearts is a structured survivor support and recovery programme — similar in purpose to the Freedom Programme, but designed from the ground up for people in rural, farming and equestrian communities.

The Freedom Programme is a well-established domestic abuse recovery programme that helps survivors understand what has happened to them and recognise patterns of abuse. It has helped thousands of people across the UK. But it was built for mainstream settings and does not reflect the specific realities of farm life, equestrian communities, rural isolation, animals, land and the pressures survivors in these communities face.

Healing Hooves and Hearts fills that gap. It is more inclusive and more relevant — helping survivors in rural, farming and equestrian communities understand their experiences in language that speaks to their world, not the world mainstream services were built for.

What Makes It Different

  • 🌾 Designed specifically for rural, farming and equestrian communities — not adapted from urban models
  • 🐴 Addresses the unique dynamics of abuse tied to animals, land, livestock, livelihood and rural isolation
  • 🤝 More inclusive than existing programmes — built for older survivors, farming families, equestrian communities and those in tightly knit rural settings
  • 💬 Helps survivors name and understand coercive control in language that reflects their specific experience
  • 🌿 Recognises that leaving in a rural context is fundamentally different — and responds to that reality
  • 🛡️ Trauma-informed, survivor-centred and facilitated by a qualified IDVA and ISVA with lived experience

Healing Hooves and Hearts is currently in development and will be delivered through The Bridle Path's CIC arm. Contact us to register your interest and be among the first to hear when the programme launches.

Register Your Interest
Cairo with a young rider at the yard
"Beyond the silence lies safety — because every survivor deserves to be heard, believed and supported."
— The Bridle Path

Specialist support
for every path.

Each Bridle Path programme is designed for a specific community within rural, farming and equestrian life. All are currently in development — contact us to register your interest or find out more.

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Healing Hearts
and Hooves

Equestrian & Farming Communities

A specialist recovery programme for survivors of domestic abuse in equestrian and farming communities, where animals have been used as tools of coercive control.

Structured like the Freedom Programme but built specifically for equestrian and farming life — using the human-horse relationship as part of the healing process. Sessions help survivors understand domestic abuse, coercive control and healthy relationships in language that reflects their world.

Currently in development

Register Interest
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Reclaiming
Your Path

Older Survivors in Rural Communities

A specialist domestic abuse programme for older survivors in rural communities — addressing abuse in later life including familial abuse, coercive control and neglect.

Older survivors in rural settings face unique barriers — isolation, financial dependence, digital exclusion and reliance on the very person abusing them. Reclaiming Your Path is built around their specific realities, with a rural and farming lens that mainstream older persons services do not provide.

Currently in development

Register Interest
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Breaking
the Reins

Peer Support for Rural Survivors

A peer support group programme for survivors across rural, farming and equestrian communities — providing safe, specialist group support and connection.

Isolation is one of the most powerful tools abusers use in rural settings. Breaking the Reins creates a safe space for survivors who share the same world — farming, horses, rural life — to connect, support each other and rebuild together.

Currently in development

Register Interest

We are here
for you.

We support adults in rural and equestrian communities, including farming families, who are experiencing or have experienced domestic abuse or sexual violence. Direct casework is currently available in Buckinghamshire and Devon. Information, signposting, training and research are available UK-wide.

Horse Owners

Survivors whose horses have been used as tools of control — threatened, sold or withheld. We understand what it means when the abuser controls your horse.

Rural Survivors

People living in isolated rural areas where geography, transport and community visibility make accessing mainstream services impossible.

Equestrian Professionals

Grooms, instructors, yard managers and riders whose professional and personal lives are deeply intertwined with equestrian communities.

Older Adults

Older survivors in rural communities, including those whose abuse intersects with financial control, isolation and age-related vulnerability.

Those Not Ready to Leave

You do not need to be ready to leave. You do not need to have reported to the police. You just need to reach out. We meet you where you are.

Farming Families

Survivors whose safety is affected by land, livestock, family businesses, tied housing, financial dependency, and the pressures of close-knit rural communities. You belong here even if horses are not part of your world.

Families & Supporters

Friends, family members and professionals who are concerned about someone in a rural or equestrian community and want to know how to help.

Meet
Kirsty.

Kirsty — Founder of The Bridle Path
Qualified Independent Domestic Violence Adviser (IDVA)
Qualified Independent Sexual Violence Adviser (ISVA)
Frontline Lead, Specialist DA Charity
Specialist in Rural & Equestrian DA Provision
Founder, The Bridle Path CIC

Kirsty

Qualified IDVA & ISVA | Founder

Kirsty is a qualified Independent Domestic Violence Adviser and Independent Sexual Violence Adviser with frontline leadership experience in specialist services. She currently works as Frontline Lead at a national specialist charity dedicated to tackling the abuse of older people.

She has supported survivors with safety planning, risk assessment, criminal justice advocacy and trauma-informed support across a range of settings. Her specialism lies in understanding and addressing the unique barriers faced by survivors in rural and equestrian communities — including geographic isolation, economic dependency on land and animals, and the use of horses and livestock as tools of coercive control.

Kirsty founded The Bridle Path because she recognised that mainstream domestic abuse services, built for urban environments, are structurally unable to serve this population. For survivors whose lives are built around horses, land and rural communities, the barriers to leaving and accessing help are exponentially greater — and there was nobody addressing them.

She is an equestrian herself. She understands your world because she lives in it too.

"I started The Bridle Path because I kept meeting survivors for whom every existing service was the wrong shape. Built for cities. Built for women who could leave quietly. Built for people without a horse who needs feeding twice a day, or land that's in his name, or a community that would notice if she was gone. I knew there had to be something better."

Help us build
the evidence.

There is currently very limited UK data specifically on domestic abuse in equestrian and rural communities. Existing research on rural DA barriers and animal abuse as coercive control points strongly to a significant unmet need — but the equestrian-specific evidence base has not yet been built. We are building it — and we need your help.

We are running the UK survey on domestic abuse in equestrian and rural communities. Every response matters. Every voice counts. The data you provide will shape specialist services, inform policy, and put the experiences of rural and equestrian survivors on the national agenda.

25,000+ estimated horse-owning households affected by domestic abuse in Britain (ONS prevalence rate applied to BETA data)
71% of survivors delay leaving due to concerns about their animals
The Evidence Gap
  • There is currently very limited UK data specifically on domestic abuse in equestrian and rural communities
  • There appears to be no specialist UK service focused specifically on domestic abuse and sexual violence in rural and equestrian communities

The survey is completely anonymous. No names are collected. It takes approximately 5 minutes. Your responses will directly shape the services our community needs.

⚠️ This survey contains questions about domestic abuse and sexual violence. If anything raises difficult feelings, support is available on 0808 2000 247 (free, 24hrs). You can leave the survey at any time.

Take The Survey →

Are you a professional or researcher? Email enquiries@thebridlepath.co.uk to discuss collaboration or data sharing.

Training that
could save lives.

Equestrian professionals — vets, instructors, yard managers, farriers — may be the last people to see a survivor before something terrible happens. We train them to recognise the signs. Training is available UK-wide, delivered online or in person.

Awareness Training

A two-hour awareness session for equestrian and rural professionals covering how domestic abuse manifests in equestrian settings, animal abuse as a homicide risk indicator, and how to respond safely to disclosures.

  • Equestrian and rural coercive control
  • Animals as tools of abuse
  • The homicide risk framework
  • Safe disclosure and referral
  • Practical case scenarios

Professional Development

Deeper training for DA professionals, rural police teams, GPs, vets and social workers on the specific dynamics of rural and equestrian abuse and how to adapt standard practice to this population.

  • Rural barriers to help-seeking
  • DASH risk assessment in rural contexts
  • Working with equestrian survivors
  • Multi-agency coordination
  • Specialist referral pathways

Bespoke Consultancy

Tailored consultancy for organisations wanting to develop rural or equestrian DA policy, review existing safeguarding frameworks, or understand how to serve this population more effectively.

  • Policy development
  • Safeguarding framework review
  • Staff training and briefings
  • Partnership development

Veterinary Briefings

A specialist briefing for equine vets on recognising domestic abuse through non-accidental animal injuries and owner presentation — and how to act on concerns safely and appropriately.

  • The link between animal and human abuse
  • Non-accidental injury indicators
  • Safe documentation
  • Referral pathways
Enquire About Training

You are not
alone.

If you are in immediate danger, please call 999.

The Bridle Path is a specialist domestic abuse and sexual violence initiative for rural and equestrian communities, including farming families, where animals, land, isolation, and community pressures can create unique barriers to safety, support, and recovery. We currently offer awareness raising, training for professionals, safe enquiry support and specialist signposting, with wider service development focused on Buckinghamshire and Devon.

You do not need to have reported to police. You do not need to be ready to leave. You do not need to have a horse. You just need to reach out and we will do our best to help or find you the right support. We also recognise that for some rural survivors, abuse may be tied to farms, family businesses, livestock, housing, and livelihood as well as horses. If that is your experience, you belong here too.

This is not an emergency service and is not monitored in real time. If you are in immediate danger, call 999. For urgent support at any time of day or night, call the National DA Helpline free on 0808 2000 247.

📧 Contact The Bridle Path

Our confidential contact service is available for survivors in Buckinghamshire and Devon. We understand rural and equestrian communities and the unique barriers you face.

Email: enquiries@thebridlepath.co.uk

Response time: Within 2 working days

Direct casework: Buckinghamshire and Devon
Information & signposting: UK-wide — if you are outside our pilot area we will help you find local support

All contacts are confidential. We will never share your information without your consent except where there is a risk to life.

This is not an emergency service. If you are in immediate danger, call 999.

🆘 Other Support

National DA Helpline: 0808 2000 247
Free, 24 hours, 7 days a week

Rape Crisis England & Wales: 0808 500 2222
Free, 24 hours

Older Adults Helpline: 0808 808 8141

Refuge: refuge.org.uk

If you are outside Buckinghamshire or Devon, the National DA Helpline can help you find local specialist support.

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IDVA
Qualified
ISVA
Qualified
10+ Years
Frontline Safeguarding
Survivor Led
Informed at every level
Training UK-Wide
Online or in person
Pilot Areas
Buckinghamshire & Devon

Working with
us.

The Bridle Path works with equestrian organisations, rural employers, farming networks, DA services, healthcare providers, housing teams and statutory agencies to raise awareness, strengthen responses and improve outcomes for survivors in rural, farming and equestrian communities.

Who We Train

Equestrian organisations, yard managers, BHS coaches, vets, farriers, rural GPs, farming charities, housing associations, police rural crime teams, safeguarding professionals and DA service staff wanting to understand rural and equestrian survivor needs.

What We Offer

Awareness training, professional development, bespoke consultancy, policy development, referral pathway development, research collaboration, joint awareness raising and advisory input. Training is available online or in person, UK-wide.

How to Enquire

Contact us at enquiries@thebridlepath.co.uk to discuss your organisation's needs. We offer an initial conversation at no cost. Training fees are available on request and are priced accessibly for smaller organisations.

Current status: The Bridle Path is an emerging specialist service building its evidence base and partnerships. Direct casework is available in Buckinghamshire and Devon. Training and research are available UK-wide now.

Enquire Now

Working
together.

The Bridle Path welcomes partnership enquiries from organisations working in domestic abuse, rural communities, equestrian welfare, farming support, housing, health, policing and safeguarding. We are particularly interested in connecting with organisations that share our commitment to reaching survivors currently underserved by mainstream provision.

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Referral Pathways

Two-way referral arrangements with DA services, rural charities and equestrian welfare organisations.

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Joint Training

Co-developing and co-delivering training for equestrian, rural and farming professionals.

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Research

Collaborating on research into domestic abuse in rural and equestrian communities — an almost entirely unstudied area.

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Awareness

Joint campaigns, events, publications and communications to raise awareness in our shared communities.

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Advisory Input

Sharing expertise to inform policy, practice and service development in rural and equestrian settings.

To discuss a partnership contact us at enquiries@thebridlepath.co.uk

Discuss Partnership

Books by
Kirsty Judd.

Kirsty writes from both professional expertise and personal experience — bringing the realities of domestic abuse, equestrian life and later life to readers across two very different but deeply connected books.

K M Judd

No One Should Wait A Lifetime To Be Believed

Domestic Abuse in Later Life — A Guide for Survivors, Families and Professionals

Non-Fiction — Professional Guide

No One Should Wait A Lifetime To Be Believed

A vital guide to domestic abuse in later life — written by a qualified IDVA and ISVA with over ten years of frontline safeguarding experience. Essential reading for survivors, families and professionals working with older people.

The title that inspired The Bridle Path Initiative's commitment to older survivors through the Reclaiming Your Path programme.

📖 Buy on Amazon

K Judd

Dream Catcher

The Wild Hoofbeats of Willowbrook

A journey of friendship, freedom, and finding oneself

Fiction — Young Adult

Dream Catcher: The Wild Hoofbeats of Willowbrook

A beautifully told story of friendship, freedom and finding oneself — set in the equestrian world that Kirsty knows and loves. Rated 5 stars on Amazon.

A perfect read for young equestrians and anyone who understands the profound bond between a person and their horse.

📖 Buy on Amazon

Media
enquiries.

The Bridle Path welcomes press and media enquiries. Our founder Kirsty Judd is available for interview, comment and feature contributions on domestic abuse in rural, farming and equestrian communities.

Kirsty speaks from the dual perspective of a specialist IDVA and ISVA with over ten years of frontline experience, and as a survivor of domestic abuse. She brings a unique combination of professional expertise, lived experience and equestrian community knowledge that is not found elsewhere in the sector.

Topics Available for Comment

  • 🐴 Domestic abuse and coercive control in equestrian communities
  • 🌾 Hidden abuse in rural and farming communities
  • 🐕 Animals used as tools of coercive control
  • 👩‍🦳 Older victim domestic abuse
  • 🏠 Barriers to leaving — animals, land and livelihood
  • 📋 Renters Rights Act 2025 — implications for survivors with pets
  • 🌿 Equine assisted recovery from trauma

Media Contact

Kirsty Judd IDVA ISVA

Founder — The Bridle Path

enquiries@thebridlepath.co.uk

Send Press Enquiry

Kirsty's writing on domestic abuse in rural and equestrian communities can be read at substack.com/@kirstymartine

Published Writing

The Bridle Path Substack publishes regular writing on domestic abuse in rural, farming and equestrian communities — including survivor perspectives, professional guidance and policy analysis. Visit substack.com/@kirstymartine

Resources &
publications.

The Bridle Path Initiative publishes evidence, policy statements and professional resources to support awareness, training and legislative change around domestic abuse in rural, farming and equestrian communities.

📄 Position Statement — May 2026

The Legislative Gap: Animal Sexual Abuse, Coercive Control and the Failure of Current Law

A parliamentary-level position statement examining how animal abuse in domestic abuse contexts is routinely recorded as criminal damage rather than recognised as coercive control — and what needs to change. Prepared for parliamentary, policy and professional audiences.

Policy Legislation Coercive Control Animal Welfare
⬇ Download PDF
🔜 Coming Soon

Professional Awareness Guide

A practical guide for vets, farriers, yard managers, riding instructors and rural professionals on recognising domestic abuse in equestrian and farming settings.

Training Professionals
Coming Soon
📊 Coming Soon

Survey Findings Report

Findings from the first UK survey on domestic abuse in equestrian and rural communities — building the evidence base that will inform training, policy and service development.

Research Evidence
Coming Soon

Our commitment
to safety.

The Bridle Path is committed to the safety and wellbeing of all survivors, professionals and volunteers who engage with our work. We operate in accordance with current safeguarding legislation and best practice guidance.

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IDVA qualified founder with 10+ years safeguarding experience

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Safeguarding policy available on request

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All data handled in line with GDPR and sector best practice

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Safeguarding concerns: enquiries@thebridlepath.co.uk

To raise a safeguarding concern or request a copy of our safeguarding policy please contact enquiries@thebridlepath.co.uk

Start the
conversation.

Your safety matters. Please read before completing this form. If someone monitors your devices or email, it may not be safe to use this form. If you are in immediate danger, call 999.

All messages are confidential. We aim to respond within 2 working days.

Important: This form is not monitored in real time and is not an emergency service. Messages are checked during working hours only. If you are in immediate danger, call 999. For urgent support at any hour, call the National DA Helpline free on 0808 2000 247 — available 24 hours a day, 7 days a week.

We are here for you.

Whether you are a survivor seeking support, a professional looking for training, a researcher, or an organisation wanting to collaborate — we would love to hear from you.

✉ Send Us An Email
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Direct Casework (Pilot) Buckinghamshire & Devon
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Training & Research Available UK-wide — online or in person

Pilot Areas:

Buckinghamshire
Devon
South Bucks
Chilterns
Vale of Aylesbury
Dartmoor
North Devon
South Devon

How we handle
your information.

The Bridle Path takes the privacy and safety of survivors extremely seriously. This notice explains how we collect, use and protect your personal information.

Who we are

The Bridle Path is a specialist domestic abuse and sexual violence support initiative for rural and equestrian communities, founded by Kirsty Judd. Contact: enquiries@thebridlepath.co.uk

What information we collect

  • Contact information you provide when you email us or complete our contact form (name, email address, message content)
  • Anonymous survey responses — no identifying information is collected through our survey
  • Professional enquiry information from training and partnership contacts

Why we collect it and our legal basis

  • To provide support: We process personal data to respond to enquiries and provide advocacy support. Our lawful basis is substantial public interest (Schedule 1, Part 2, DPA 2018) for special category data relating to domestic abuse, and legitimate interests for general contact data.
  • To develop services: Anonymous survey data is used to build our evidence base and improve provision for rural and equestrian survivors.
  • To respond to training and partnership enquiries: Our lawful basis is legitimate interests.

How long we keep your information

Casework records are retained for a maximum of 7 years following the end of support, in line with sector best practice. Contact enquiries are deleted after 12 months if no ongoing relationship develops. Anonymous survey data is retained indefinitely for research purposes.

Who we share your information with

We will never share your personal information without your consent, except where we believe there is a risk to life — in which case we may share information with emergency services or statutory agencies. We will always tell you when we intend to share information unless doing so would put you or others at greater risk.

Your rights

  • The right to access the information we hold about you
  • The right to correct inaccurate information
  • The right to request deletion of your information
  • The right to object to processing

To exercise any of these rights, email enquiries@thebridlepath.co.uk

Cookies and website data

Our website does not currently use tracking cookies. We use Netlify to host our website. Netlify may collect basic server logs for security purposes. For more information see Netlify's privacy policy.

ICO registration

We are in the process of registering with the Information Commissioner's Office (ICO) as required for organisations processing personal data. If you have a concern about how we handle your data, you have the right to complain to the ICO at ico.org.uk.

This privacy notice was last updated March 2026. We will update it as our services develop.

Help us build
what should already exist.

Behind stable doors, farm tracks and quiet village lanes, people are living with abuse that too often goes unseen. Your support helps The Bridle Path build specialist awareness, training, research and support for rural, farming and equestrian communities that have too often been left out of the conversation.

Every donation — however small — helps fund training development, research, professional qualifications and the early infrastructure needed to grow this service.

💛 Support The Bridle Path

Via our Crowdfunder campaign — target £5,000

You can also support Kirsty's writing directly:

Support Beyond the Gate

Because support doesn't stop at the gate.

Read our
writing.

Kirsty writes about domestic abuse in rural, farming and equestrian communities — the realities, the barriers, the silences and the survivors. Read her latest pieces on Substack.

Animals & Coercive Control

When Leaving Means Leaving the Animals Behind

For many survivors in equestrian and rural communities, the horse is not a side issue. The horse is the reason they stay.

Read on Substack →

Land & Farming

When the Person Hurting You Also Controls the Land

In farming communities, leaving an abusive relationship can mean losing a home, a livelihood, a generational identity and an income simultaneously.

Read on Substack →

Rural Communities

The Gates Were Always Closed: Why Rural Survivors Stay Hidden

Rural isolation is not just geography. It is a weapon — and in equestrian and farming communities it is used deliberately.

Read on Substack →

Awareness

Domestic Abuse Doesn't Discriminate. And Nobody Told Me That.

Abuse does not look the way people expect. It rarely does. And in rural and equestrian communities, the gap between expectation and reality can cost lives.

Read on Substack →

Survivor Perspective

Why Didn't You Just Leave?

The question that survivors are asked more than any other. The answer is never simple — and in rural and equestrian communities, it is more complicated than most people know.

Read on Substack →

Older Victims

Why Older Victims Wait So Long And What That Costs Them

Over one million older people experience domestic abuse in the UK every year. Most are never identified. In rural communities, they are the least likely to be seen at all.

Read on Substack →

Read All Articles on Substack